Gay rights girl
I am really vocal about gay rights. I’ve been on protests for gay rights, and often speak up about gay rights when there’s a discussion about it. I quietly celebrate when there is a small step for gay rights in Australia, which constitutes to a great leap for gay people all over the world. One of my closest friends is gay, and this has caused me to be somewhat involved in the gay community.
This is fine. Yay for gay rights!
However, a strange thing that happens to me as a direct correlation of this is the idea that because I’m so enthusiastic about gay rights, I must be gay myself. Right?!?!?!
That’s not true. I’m not gay! It doesn’t bother me that people sometimes think I am, but really: If we all assumed things this quickly, can you imagine how ridiculous things would be?
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risa Said,
July 24, 2008 @ 7:37 pm
I think people always assume first and ask questions later,at least thats how people in my life have been.
good luck on vocaliing gay rights
Veronica Said,
July 26, 2008 @ 4:25 pm
I understand completely what you mean. I cheered when San Francisco legalized Gay marriage, and I cheered when Massachusetts did the same thing. I’ve had people “accuse” me of being gay many times in the best. It doesn’t matter when I tell them I’m happily married.
My mom, aunt, and cousin are gay, and I have countless friends that are gay, and I want them to be able to have all the rights that I do. It’s nice to see other web designers out there that are proud to vocalize.
Tooth Said,
July 27, 2008 @ 6:54 am
I think there are certain aspects of life the government shouldn’t control and regulate. Sure they should abolish crime and inform their citizens - actions that give innocent civilians the freedom to walk outside their house and not be shot by a crazed madman - but the refusal to grant gay people their rights to do what heterosexuals may do … it’s just another form of singling out a group of people, and dare I say it - bullying on a higher scale.
Good on you. :)
Dani Said,
August 1, 2008 @ 5:59 am
I admire you for what you’re doing. I’ve always supported gay rights, but I’d like to be a bit more active with it. I’ve gotten into numerous heated discussions with other people about it, and that’s what probably keeps me feeling so strongly about it. It’s the people that are so set in their ways of thinking that really aggravate me.
Morgan Said,
August 3, 2008 @ 7:06 am
I absolutely agree with you, though I may not be as vocal about these thoughts. I also agree with Tooth; gay people should have the same rights straight people do. What if we singled out everyone who liked the colour blue, or something, because it was ‘unnatural’?
Jamie Said,
August 3, 2008 @ 12:57 pm
I’m all for gay rights and it’s great to see that you are protesting for their rights. I support that as well. I really hope all of Australia would follow Tasmania and accept gay marriage. It will definitely be a big victory :)
Kaz Said,
August 3, 2008 @ 2:36 pm
Wow good on you! I think it’s great what you are doing! I do hope that Australia listens! Good luck
Mara Said,
August 6, 2008 @ 11:01 am
I understand where you’re coming from with this. I too have many gay/lesbian friends and just because I don’t have my nose stuck in the air or throwing Bible verses around doesn’t mean that I AM lesbian. Get of yourself. And I dont understand why it BOTHERS people so much about what sex the decide to love. Like, who’s business is it anyway? *rolls eyes* Closed minded people really do irritate me to the fullest. Continue in what you do, someone appreciates it :)
krizza Said,
August 8, 2008 @ 2:31 pm
i don’t really follow gay rights history but i have nothing against anything gay. i support them in my own little quiet way. :) well, not very quiet since i write yaoi fiction and make graphics that has implicated gay couples. nothing big.
Marsha Said,
August 8, 2008 @ 3:48 pm
That’s good! :) I may not be a full on supporter, but I too have nothing against gays. They should be treated just like any other person. Sadly, you can’t ever please everyone.
Dani Said,
August 8, 2008 @ 5:54 pm
I’m so with you on the whole gay rights thing. Gays aren’t just gays as much as they are people first, just like you and me and the rest of us. They should be treated like people first and foremost, not just labeled as gay and downgraded. :(
Fee Said,
August 8, 2008 @ 6:54 pm
People spend too much time assuming things when 9 times out 10 they are totally wrong. I’m not a full on supporter but I’m all for gay rights - they are people and deserve the same rights as heterosexual couples do. I admire you for what you are doing.
Lisa Marie Said,
August 12, 2008 @ 4:28 pm
I don’t follow the gay rights and I guess its because I am a Christian and yes, I had an confusion with myself between boys and girls when I was a teenager. Everyone has an opinion.
Atracktive Said,
August 15, 2008 @ 4:15 am
People always assume things…but when people assume they make and ass out of you and me…so just keep being yourself and sticking up for what you believe is right and that is all that matters.
Erica Said,
August 15, 2008 @ 11:59 pm
I used to have issues with people thinking I was a lesbian because of my thoughts & feelings regarding gay rights. But now that I’m married (to a man!:) those comments just kind of disappeared.
Charity Said,
August 20, 2008 @ 5:49 am
I really don’t understand why it is that people who are straight can’t be involved in gay rights without being tagged as gay. Having gay friends can make you get involved, having gay family members can make you get involved. It’s stupid to judge people on what they stand up for.
Sarah Said,
August 20, 2008 @ 2:22 pm
I couldn’t agree with you more about how people can quickly assume things about you that are simply not true. Take me for example. I am a fashion enthusiast and love looking at different looks and pieces. Am I in any way about to fork out $1000 for a bag that looks nice or for a statement piece that I love? NOPE.
Lav Said,
August 22, 2008 @ 10:40 am
I agree with you completely. I mean, of course I want my friends to be happy, and if its gay marriage they want I’ll go and help support them. Doesn’t mean I’m personally classified there.
Justin Said,
August 26, 2008 @ 11:25 pm
Aw, that’s really great that you’re so vocal about gay rights. It is kind of weird that people would think you’re gay, though. I mean, every gay guy has at least one die-hard female friend, so it only makes sense they’d feel strongly about such things. At least it doesn’t bother you what people think.
Jessica Said,
August 27, 2008 @ 10:07 pm
I think that it’s great that you’re out there supporting the rights of others. More people should be doing the same. Not be so ignorant about all sorts of other topics either.
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